When you walk away, you both should be VERY CLEAR AND IN AGREEMENT on how quickly you each plan to dive back into the dating pool. If this is only a temporary break and you're back together later, but meanwhile you go out and screw someone else and he doesn't, this WILL NOT BE PRETTY when the truth starts coming out. Just a word of advice about what usually happens when the girl initiates one of these breaks. Reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): is this normal? i keep thinking i hope this break is really a break and not a break up. and its day 2! it feel like hell like its been 4ever and nobody even matters anymore, i just have sore eyes from cryin off and on. and at the end of that week i decided not to. I discussed it with my mate and i said we'll take one week to decide what to do. I want to take the time to everyone and say thanks for the advice i really took everything into consideration. This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2009): Someone Please give me some advice on what to do! Thanks!įancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! i feel wrong at times and at sometimes i feel right for eanting a break and exploring my options. Then there is this guy work that is showing interest and im liking it too. im the type that needs affection im not sure how it would be to go months without him. We only see each other once a week maybe twice on lucky weeks because of our busy schedules. This whole situation hit real hard when he told me he would be joining the military next year to get through school. This doesn’t mean you have to be 24/7 all about your relationship. You need to make time for each other and be there for one another. Healthy relationships take a lot of effort. 6) Your relationship simply isn’t a priority. i dont know how a break work or how it should work but im very confused. For a practical, down-to-earth guide to moving forward from a break up, check out my new eBook here). I spoke with him somewhat about these feelings and we are contemplating taking a break. Its painful to discuss that i feel that way cause i love him to death i known him since i was 15 now im 23. I started to believe im lacking something in my relationship, or missing out on something. But i have been crushing hard on guys lately, especially the ones who show me genuine attention. We both lost our virginity to each other and this is our first "Serious relationship). But lately i come to believe that Im not happy because we been sexually active for 3 years and when we make love its ok. and we have had some rocky times in our relationship where he may have slipped up and or I slipped up but no one had cheated (sexual intercourse,or outside romantic relationships etc). to my knowledge he had never cheated on thats what i believe. Please help! I been with my mate for goin on 6 years and everything has always been ok. Tagged as: Big Questions, Breaking up, Dating, Sex, Troubled relationships Should I take A break from my long term Relationship to explore options or not? Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!
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